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Her Sexual Abuse Marked Him Too
They had booked a couples retreat, and we had already met for a few sessions. I’d seen them individually the day before—worked with him...
Mayda Reyes
May 66 min read


Porn Addiction in Partnership: A Path to Healing and Connection
We were just having a really nice chat in the pool. My friend had introduced me to her girlfriends, and they were curious about what I...
Mayda Reyes
Apr 296 min read


Love Lives Where the Theories End
Her voice was fast-paced, tumbling out without pause. I had already sat through five minutes of her voice note — and she just kept going....
Mayda Reyes
Apr 225 min read


Infantilizing Women and Demonizing Men: A New Spiritual Epidemic
One of my favorite moments during the day is laying down with a cup of tea and going through the extremely funny, sarcastic, and...
Mayda Reyes
Apr 164 min read


When Boundaries Become Punishment
I came home and she was furious. Deeply hurt. She said I should’ve told her we were having dinner alone. The truth is… I wanted to. But...
Mayda Reyes
Apr 157 min read


Men's Unspoken Needs
“What usually happens is that he starts pulling away,” she began, her voice trembling with pain. “At first, he becomes contemptuous,...
Mayda Reyes
Oct 10, 20249 min read


The Forgotten Gender: Men matter too.
I get this question very often: "Why did you choose to write about men's issues?" My response is simple: Because they matter, and it...
Mayda Reyes
May 11, 20245 min read


Mastering conflict as a man through Tantra
Some weeks ago, I had the honor of guiding a charming couple through a self-inquiry meditation. During the session, they visualized the...
Mayda Reyes
May 7, 20246 min read


The Unbearable Void: Men, Escorts, and the Pursuit of Love
Last year, my friend Keegan and I traveled to Thailand. We decided to spend a couple of days exploring Bangkok, visiting temples, and...
Mayda Reyes
Apr 28, 20247 min read


Facing Reality: The Honest Truth About Sexless Relationships
Exploring sexless relationships: Embrace honesty, curiosity, and change to reignite passion. #TruthInIntimacy
Mayda Reyes
Apr 13, 20246 min read


Unveiling Fearful Attachment in men.
“A brave man is not one who doesn't feel afraid, but one who conquers that fear by being true to himself." - Nelson Mandela In our...
Mayda Reyes
Apr 6, 20244 min read


The Spiritual Wound of Masculinity: A Journey to Authenticity
Last week, I was chatting with a man that I love deeply. While discussing our upcoming plans, I mentioned my intention to take a...
Mayda Reyes
Mar 29, 20243 min read


The Impact of Weaponizing Psychological Terms in Relationships
Lately, I've noticed a trend that's been capturing my attention. Every morning I wake up to a lot of WhatsApp messages from friends and...
Mayda Reyes
Mar 27, 20247 min read


LinkedIn's Censorship: My Story of Discussing Male Sexuality as a Woman
When I started sharing content around male sexuality and Tantra for men on my LinkedIn account, I anticipated various reactions and...
Mayda Reyes
Mar 4, 20245 min read


Unlocking the Power of Tantra: Ancient Wisdom for Modern Men
When I tell people what I do, many are surprised, and their minds start racing with intriguing thoughts. I don't blame them because, in...
Mayda Reyes
Sep 25, 20234 min read


A brave Man's Journey Through Relationship Abuse
In the world of relationships and intimacy, many couples face common issues like differences in desire, lack of physical connection, or...
Mayda Reyes
Sep 18, 20233 min read


Exploring Male Sexuality: Beyond Stereotypes and Stigma
As a sex coach, one thing that continually surprises me is how much our culture shapes our sexuality, in negative ways. Sometimes it can...
Mayda Reyes
Sep 8, 20234 min read


Men and Pain: Addressing the Un named
When I started coaching men around sex, love, and relationships, I noticed something very interesting. There isn't much discussion or...
Mayda Reyes
Sep 4, 20234 min read


Awakening Epic Pleasure
When people ask me in social contexts what do I do for living there are two questions that they often ask: "How can I feel more...
Mayda Reyes
Aug 31, 20233 min read


Reclaiming Intimacy: Tantric Solutions for Men Struggling with ED
In my previous blog, I wrote about Tantra and its perspective on Erectile Dysfunction (ED). Now, let's dive deeper into some practices...
Mayda Reyes
Aug 21, 20233 min read
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